((((((((Dani)))))))))

Ugh, it's so hard when T is away for a long time. I'm sorry you have that looming ahead of you.

Is there something between "T is leaving and I never should have gotten attached" and "T is here and it's okay to be attached"? Can it be true that it's okay to be attached, the attachment is healthy and good and healing, AND that T is going to be gone and then come back?

I hope we can support you while T is gone.