I also want to state I'm pro-choice too, but still like people to try their best to find alternatives. I'm not one of those radical people who don't think it shouldn't be done even if the mothers in danger. I do know that some women end of regretting the decision and others are okay. Like you said you need more input from your therapist and fiance since this is an emotional time. Ultimately this is your decision and I wish you peace.