I'll state up front that I am extremely pro-choice. And in my view the lives of the living take precedence over those of the foetus. My mother died when I was quite young so I basically grew up without a mother, and that was very hard.

Please do discuss this with your fiance, and do what is in the best interests of your family and that includes your health and your daughter's needs.

I know this is an extremely difficult decision to be faced with so I hope that you can discuss it with a T whatever you decide.

--splitimage