There are strong feelings here. Please be safe. I understand what you are saying, although I struggle with where the line is myself. I'm often not sure whether I consent or not, or if I just give in because it's more tolerable than being grumbled at for three days. When I'm confused about whether or not I have a choice, really, then he is confused too and doesn't know what I'm telling him because I don't communicate very clearly. I am not sure whether it's abuse or not, but I am positive that he doesn't mean it to be.

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