Its a job, just like any other. If she didnt get any sleep or she's got something bad going on, she's got to come in and do her job just like anybody else would have to do. And she probably isnt doing it perfectly or you wouldnt have noticed her stress when you caught her off gaurd at your last session. T's are people just like anybody else.

But you can look at this worry of dumping "bad stuff" on her from another angle. what you see as the "bad stuff" a T sees as challenges. It is a T's mission so to speak to take challenges and help you turn them into opportunities for growth. Therefore the more stuff you give her, there is more there is to work with, the more opportunity to growth. Dont be afraid to share about what is going on in your life. Youre only doing a disservice to yourself.