nah! it is more of a you've been able to do this all along and now you've found that out for yourself. we're happy this is over for you and that you stood your ground and sought support to get through this.

hopefully you'll be able to see how your posts will help someone else in your shoes who arrives at this site looking for some help or answers. all the grief and hassle and tribulation was worth it now that you're on the other side!!

takes a strong woman to stand up for herself. takes an even stronger woman to ask for help in remainging strong for the duration of the war. well done!