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Jun 08, 2011, 04:02 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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You are NOT a murderer!!  Don't allow that thought to live rent free in your head. 
I'll share with you my views, so you can understand where I'm coming from. I do not like abortion because I think it is sad. I know that the life of a fetus/child, whichever you choose to call it, is precious, and I like to know that everyone gets a good chance at the best life they can have.
At the same time, the world and humans are not perfect. Nature isn't perfect. So although I don't like abortion, I understand that it is, at times, a necessary procedure to have.
You are in a difficult space here. I'm sure that, in your heart, if circumstances were different, you would love to go forward with this pregnancy, but things are what they are, and this is a health and safety issue for you, the unborn child, and your daughter for she needs a healthy Mother. You're making the best decision you can with the situation you have been handed and best decisions don't always equal the most favorable.
Please hear me!! You are not a murderer. You are not going to burn for this. You are going to get through and move forward.
I'm sorry that your family yelled at you and judged you. I do not know why or how parent's could be so un-supportive.
You make the best decision you can, and that's all anyone can ask of you.
Here for you, standing by you!!
Blessings
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Last edited by Elysium; Jun 08, 2011 at 04:16 AM.
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