Thanks Sugarhorse. I understand that it won't be couples therapy, at the moment it is better that she goes alone. I think she feels guilty and ashamed and my presence will only make things worse...

I have also made a appointment for myself, I want to talk to someone about this. I can't speak to our friends, not yet anyway.

On a sidenote, should we remain living together? ATM we are still staying together, but i have moved to another room. And I am refraining from talking to her or expressing my emotions to her. Talk about the weather etc, but not about her BD, she is cold and non-emotional, distant and I don't want to push her further away.