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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I'm still at the stage of accepting the reality and then, hopefully, I can work on changing my pattern.
Sannah, that's where I'm stuck. I don't know how to solve the problem!
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Maybe you are getting the cart before the horse here? When you are done doing the work the problem solving almost falls into place. You pointed out something very important here - "accepting the reality". This is a really important step and problem solving will not come before this step. Trust the process.
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I know "you guys" will understand how difficult it is to put my T into proper perspective in my life. She's SO very important to me, but so have been all the Ts before her. I've got to stop doing this!
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Hmmmm, sounds like you are fighting yourself here? How about just working through it instead of fighting what you are doing? You are very drawn to your T's. Explore this and stop fighting it?