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Originally Posted by dolle9
... i have family but they live some what far. & i have my mom & my sister twisting things around so i look like the jerk in the whole situation. i have a friend who's mom offered me a place to stay. i just want to get a job 1st so i won't feel so bad you know ? it really hurt me especially that now my brothers against me too b.c he was the only one on my side now he's telling me to get out now too & won't even speak to me:/
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I would consider the friend's mom option, and possibly family. Explaining to family that there is much turmoil and that you are looking for help in the form of distancing yourself from the situation so it can start to be resolved...might be a good way to approach them. This doesn't place blame on anyone in particular and suggests a very healthy way to deal with this...even if they believe your mom, it would be hard to argue that distance is not needed so things can be dealt with constructively...