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Originally Posted by online user
Spaceid--you love him and want to be with him. He's probably afraid of a commitment, but has a lovely relationship with you which is fulfilling in his life. Why not let things proceed with the understanding that he can't make more of a commitment at this time, but you both enjoy each other and what you have together?
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Well for me I don't completely enjoy this situation. Without a commitment I feel tons of anxiety. He does not have any accountability to me. He may be perfectly happy with the situation as it is, but I'm not. He's still single so he can flirt with any girl he likes. I don't want to be studying with him one day in the future and all of a sudden he tells me about this great girl he met and how they are dating now. Where does that leave me? I'm scared that if we have no commitment I'm setting myself up to be used.