spaceid, if that's how you feel I think you should act accordingly. I'd feel the same way. You deserve to be in a relationship where you have the commitment you desire. If this guy can't give it to you right now then you're right you're in a position where it would be very easy to get hurt.

Some plans I'd come up with (sorry if I repeat at all) is either the commitment you're looking for or even a compromise. Maybe you could be agree to be exclusive for *insert months till school is over here*, and then to talk about it and regroup after that. Maybe you could agree to make a decision after school and until then continue as is (if that's something you'd be able to do). Maybe you can agree to stop seeing each other until he's ready for commitment. This list could go on and on - the possibilities are vast I think, it's about finding one that works well enough for you. I know personally having an end date to how long you ahve to wait for a decision would be important.

I think you have to pay attention to your feelings here and accept them. You FEEL like this is not enough for you, you FEEL scared, you FEEL unhappy. You can't change how you feel, but you can change how you react to your feelings. What do you think is the best reaction to these feelings?