thank you so much! my t seems to do similar things. she did move closer. and tried asking questions about the collage. but stopped and moved back. it just really scared me as its never happened before. it was because of the collage. i just snapped when she looked at. and now i go again on monday and am scared it will happen again. it wasnt finished and she asked me to bring it again. i emailed to ask if i could not bring it this time. she said it would be ok but its what we are working on. so feel like i should bring it or i am slowing things down. but i am sure i will react again. i think after reading your replys that my t did do the right things. i wouldnt want her to touch me in any way or come closer. altho she did move closer for a minute. guess im just not over what happened. thank you!