I'm sure it is - someone tell me this a terrible idea.

My wife's lover lives 1000 miles away, so I usually don't have to worry about him. In fact, my wife doesn't even know that I know, and I plan on keeping it that way as long as I can.

But - she'll be visiting, with our children, that area for two weeks in July...

I _never_ go with her - I just can't get all the time of from work.

But I might have to do a client visit there...except that I still can't stretch it out for more than a day or two.

What about suggesting that we add in the lover (who is known to me - he's an old friend of the wife's) as the third in a threesome?

That's sick and stupid, right?