JB, Hi and welcome!

This is something only she can do for self, and she has to want it. Her asking you to remind is only going to make her want the food that much more in a rebellious kind of way, I think, and feel like someone is trying to take what she wants away from her. I was able to lose a good deal of weight several years back, and it was something I had to journey in alone as far as friends and family went (excepting progress reports, etc.).

Maybe she can be held accountable at weight watchers or a similar program, letting you totally off the hook excepting the great "high five's"?

good luck!

Kd