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Originally Posted by Wil_Verstaan
Thanks Sugarhorse. I understand that it won't be couples therapy, at the moment it is better that she goes alone. I think she feels guilty and ashamed and my presence will only make things worse...
I have also made a appointment for myself, I want to talk to someone about this. I can't speak to our friends, not yet anyway.
On a sidenote, should we remain living together? ATM we are still staying together, but i have moved to another room. And I am refraining from talking to her or expressing my emotions to her. Talk about the weather etc, but not about her BD, she is cold and non-emotional, distant and I don't want to push her further away.
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my boyfriend has it and dumps me every few months , is irratibale and has lack of eye contact and acts agressive , its a blimmin hard thing to deal with , as u become a carer its all about them and ur needs get pushed to the bottom - its ur choice - but read up as much as u can - so u know exactly what u are letting urself in for , also it can come back in children too so be aware its hard - in an ideal world u could walk away but i understand u love her but tough times are ahead best of luckx