Glimmer , so sorry your going through this, i myself have um sort of been struggling too with something similiar , Not surewhatsthe best advice, but def educate yourself best as you can, it will help you understand more and maybe help the relationship Its your decision whether to stay or not, whatever you feel is best for you, in my situation , I am staying , I love him and dont want to give up on him... Whatever you decide pleasetake care of yourself too, wishing you all the best , big hugsto you!!!