Things that have been happening here are almost too much for me to deal with right now.

I think part of the problem for me is that there have been some posts which are obviously criticizing another individual. As I tend to the paranoid, I have felt that those comments are about and aimed at me. That has been very difficult for me to deal with.

I would like to ask all of you to accept that there may be two sides to any disagreement. In supporting friends here, some people seem to feel it necessary to attack others. That is what has hurt me. They may not know who has upset their friend. They don’t know both sides of the story. Their comments may not even be aimed at anyone on this site. But because they are such general and public comments it FEELS like it is at me. I doubt that I am the only one to have felt threatened by some of these posts. Shouldn’t comments like this aimed at another person be addressed privately to that person? As it is I have ended up feeling insecure, threatened and attacked, and all in ways that I can do nothing against.

Any suggestions gratefully received.