That's the question I'm trying to deal with now. I'm seeing my therapist tomorrow. Some things happened over the week with him, namely him calling me up drunk and tellig me everything that is wrong with me especially how I'm not girly enough. He apologized to me, but he's never done that to me before. Since he's been on vacation he's been drinking like a frat boy, but he said no more drinking after this. I'm not even sure how I feel about him right now. He's this nice, responsible guy, but when he drinks it is like Jekyl and Hyde. Thing is he doesn't drink around me, only old friends. I'm feeling a lot of things right now and don't know what to do.