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Old Feb 17, 2006, 03:41 PM
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Some times one just needs to learn to a be a little SELFISH..... do some thing for YOU for a change - any thing that gives you pure pleasure.
There will still be time to care for all those around you..... BTW - I too use to be just like you are now and I learned that I was trying to earn my way into every ones heart by always doing for them - I was trying to insure that I was loved & wanted.

I guess I stopped worrying about everything and everyone the day my only daughter died.... I learned then that some things just happen and we cannot control them - I also learned that some things are not worth worrying over.... so now I take care of what I must and leave the rest to take care of themselves.... and guess what? - it is usually fine without me. (smiles).

LoVe,
Rhapsody -