Oh, do I understand about the stress of moving cross-country, lol! I have moved cross-country four times. Yes. Four. Between New England and Utah. The first time we went to Utah, we only knew two people and didn't know the area at all. Now, having those two people was a Godsend, so I can understand how not knowing anyone would be very stressful. The second time we went to Utah, it was much better, but we were still in a different area, so there was still a learning curve. Going to NE was coming home, so that was a different story....but I digress.

I agree with Sugahorse - find as much social networking as you can. There are lots of places to look for information. First, start with the college. If they're a specialty school, it is likely that they have quite a few students from out of the area and may have some relocation resources. Next, look for a local DBSA chapter. DBSA is the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance and they have in-person support groups that usually meet at least weekly all across the country. You can find them at www.dbsalliance.org . Click on the "find support" tab on the left of the page. Another good place is the state government website. There you will find all sorts of information about car registrations, employment search services, schools, housing, etc. And don't forget about the state tourism sites! You've got to have a little fun and what better place than your backyard? Also check out www.about.com . They have lots of city-specific sites led by locals who know the ins and outs of the area.

Now, coming from the NW US, it sounds like you'll be moving to the east coast. Do you mind sharing where, in general? (New England, New York, Mid-Atlantic, South?) If you happen to be coming to New England, particularly Mass. or NH, let me know if I can help.

Moving anywhere is stressful. Relocating adds another whole dimension. But it can also be fun to explore a new area. You've done this before, you can get through it. Seriously - let me know if I can help.