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Old Jun 10, 2011, 02:56 PM
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I talked to T for a few minutes. He said he is "frustrated" but not "angry", although I'm not sure if there's really a difference right now. i know he can be angry AND things can still be okay in the end, but blah....
I am learning that T can be frustrated with me yet still like me and want to be there. The fact that he's frustrated doesn't mean he will reject you,or not trust you any more, or not value the relationship you have. It feels horrible to know that T feels something negative towards us but I think this is about learning how relationships aren't perfect yet with trust and committment, the hard times can be worked through and the relationship (i.e. you and T) can survive it.

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He said that we have worked through ruptures before and we will work through this.

It doesnt sound to me that T hates you at all. Quite the opposite in fact- he wants to help you through this. He is still there now, and still wants to be there for you and put the hard work in to get through this rupture

You have a strong relationship with your T- strong enough for you both to get through this. T is still there as he always has been.
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