I think it is very straightforward to ask a woman that; otherwise games develop. Then the woman can establish some rules; like, well, if we have sex, I expect a certain level of frequency of seeing you if I love you; if she doesn't love you, can't say. Yes, if there's chemistry from the beginning, it will be exciting; if routine, there's no love in it. Isn't love exciting? I say yes, love is good; but a man with deceptive motives for sex will never find love there. Wow, hope I didn't say anything over the top; but the above post is an honest question. And what if a woman wants to have sex; must she ask?