My best advice is work on yourself, make yourself feel better, believe in yourself first, that you are important and that people should think of you highly.

I know it sounds stupid, but it does work--think of yourself (as I am sure you all are), as intelligent, good, caring gentlemen...work with your life--keep doing the best you can, and it may come along.

Believe me, I have been in the same boat too, where you see a girl and you wish, "MAN, I would give anything if she would just be mine and do whatever I wanted, and would think the world of me..."

While that is great, it would get very old after awhile--the great thing about relationships is that you evolve and love someone who is not always exactly like you, and you are not like them, but (for the most part) you do love them...

Hope that helps