((((((StuckandConfused))))))

Sorry you are feeling sad tonight. You are in good company. I am surrounded by my lovely family and feel the same way. I had my last appt. with my T on Tuesday. (if you want to know a little of what happened, read my response to Daisy May on Pain in Transference thread in Psychotherapy). Mid April is 2 months. Has it gotten any easier? Is the pain starting to ease? Have you been able to put some of that back in your marriage?
I think it is good you are getting a new T. If the old one wasn't working and it sounds like you gave it some time, that's the right move. You are not paying to listen to him talk for 50 minutes. I'm glad he was able to help you initially though.
For me, what is unbearable right now is the thought that I will never, ever, ever see him again. That is how I have to look at it in order to function. I do have a new T appt. next week. He was our MFT(Marriage Family Therapy) and is pretty easy going but I have not decided for sure if/when I will continue, even though I am leaning in that direction. My new T is in the same building as my old.......old will be gone for 8 weeks in summer but will be there next week and I hope beyond hope I do not see him or I may have an emotional breakdown. As long as I can convince myself that he is gone........I think I may be okay. Tell me........does it get better? Has it gotten easier to deal with? Did seeing another T help lessen the sting? ((((((Hugs))))))) Hang in there.........this place is great to come when you are feeling down.