its been a while since ive been on here. mostly because things haven't changed much. just a lot of arguing, but then on a good day we worked through some things and got a game plan going on how we are going to cope and treat each other better. also i found out the military is letting me go home in a month. it was completely random, but my leadership pulled some strings and got it approved. when i told my wife she was so happy she cried. so things are going great right now. i cant wait to get home to her and our son. thank you God for helping us through this hardship. goodbye for now