So I have a two in one sorta deal i'm looking for some insight on. I've liked this girl for a good while now, for all intents and purposes we are a "perfect" couple but for whatever reason it just doesn't work out between us. She's still one of the best friends a guy could ask for and I'm not gonna let that go at all. Just wanted to see if anyone could help with a way to maybe jumpstart the mentality change?

Also, I can't communicate for crap and since my depression is dragging me through the mud I feel like i'm losing the people that are really important to me. As far as I see it there is no reason for me to be thinking this so how have any of you coped with situations like this?

Thanks in advance