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Their comments may not even be aimed at anyone on this site. But because they are such general and public comments it FEELS like it is at me.

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I think as you stated that this may be more your issue..as in the paranoia you mentioned than attacks on you ..I cannot see people posting family members names or friends name..maybe friends who are fighting as being helpful to the site *as a whole*..I always ask myself is it me or am I guilty of something and if I am maybe I need to fix it..if I am not then it may be..I am just wrong. I do not suffer paranoia but honestly I cannot see a whole site full of posters watching how they words things and names of friends and family being posted just to help your paranoia..I think maybe you could take this up with T???