I met a lady about 6 months ago at my church. We were just casual friends, but for the past 2 months we meet weeky for a support group. There are only 3 of us in this group.

As I was talking about therapy one time, she blurted out, "Are you seeing, ___________?" I told her I was, as I thought maybe she was seeing her, too. She doesn't, but told me that _________was her roommate in college. That was weird!

Now that this lady and I have become closer, we talked about facebook and friending each other. We are both already friends of the other lady in our group.

When I looked up my new friend, I noticed that she is friends with my therapist. I saw a few posts from my therapist on her wall. Nothing personal, just little things.

At first, I was okay with it, but the more I thought about, I was worried that I may be teetering on crossing a boundary. I don't want to do anything that will mess up my relationship with my friend, but my new group of friends want to use facebook to communicate with each other. Private messaging.

I am sure that my therapist will see my name pop up. I am concerned that she will de-friend this person if she sees that both of us are her facebook friends.

What would you do?