I don't think this is even her "boyfriend". She said the first thing they are doing is going to the OBGYN to have a doc talk to her about the responsibilities of being involved with someone sexually. My sis had my niece at 18 so she has always made it clear that, if she needs BC, my sis will take her to get it.

I imagine the boy's mom took the phone and went through it completely. I can only hope he didn't send it to anyone before my sis got to it.

I hear the horror stories like the one you just told and don't want that to ever happen to her. My sis and I are both friends with her on fb so I have seen the pics she puts up there and they are not bad. I think my sis needs to have a one-on-one talk with her bc her step-dad is not the kind to take things like this "lightly". Most likely he will just go off and not even allow her to speak.

From what I hear these are pretty bad pics. I am only 7 yrs older than her and have tried to always be the "friend" aunt that she can come and talk to about anything but I guess she doesn't see it that way. I guess my sis tried to talk her husband into family therapy and he refused so it might just be the two of them without her step-dad. I wish he would agree though. I just hope she learns a lesson from all this.....

Thanks for your input.