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I think my bf would be the last person to cheat on someone. He was cheated on before in his previous 8 yrs old relationship. With me, he understands that I’m the perfect fit to be his girlfriend/future wife. He’s very picky and careful when selecting his girlfriend (when he look for a gf, he’s actually looking for a future wife.) and I happen the be the one that fit most of the qualifications he asks for. Especially the cheating part, because I’m extremely faithful and he’s kinda paranoid.
In our workplace we usually surround by a lot of girls, some are hot, young, old, nice, ugly. My bf is a BIG flirt but I’m normally ok with it because he does it to EVERYONE and not just to any particular girl.
BUT there’s this one girl who is kinda cute although we do see some that are prettier than her. I just have a funny feeling about the way he is around her. He’s less quiet and he’s not acting like a big goof like how he usually are. I know for sure that he does favor her over some other girls that we’ve seen(it could be that they develop a friendship relationship or maybe he gets along better with her than other people we’ve seen?). I don’t know for sure what’s going on so I’m not accusing him anything. But I just really HATE the situation. In a way I am jealous the way he treated her, all polite like that. I know for sure he will not cheat on me EVEN if he has a crush on her, but what if he does really has a crush on her? I’m really not ok with that too. Although we only see her like once a month, and he added her on his facebook.
Some reasons that make me paranoid: he did say that she is cute and he would do her if he didn’t has me. he did want to hang out as friends (which we rarely do with clients, and she is one of our clients). She did (or still does) likes him and asked for his number. And she does have his number but he didn’t hide that from me. We don’t normally give our personal cell phone number out, only to our loyal favorite clients.
I guess I’m not worry about him cheating on me but I do really hate it if he has a crush on her. I have no negative feeling about her. My guy is a chick magnet so I’m used to seeing girls liking him and flirting with him. It’s just I thought this particular girl got some special attention and I have no real proof other than my gut feeling.
I don’t know what to do now. Should I talk to him? He’ll just deny it though. I don’t think our relationship is base much on love. It’s more like a business deal where two partners found each other most trustable and understand that this relationship between these two persons (me and him) will have the least chance of breakup/divorce. Me, on the other does truly in with love him though. I don’t know about the other way around.
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