I don't know what country you are from and what dating and relationships are like where you are from. It seems to me, if you and he are both looking for a "business" marriage, that you expect that sort of response from your partner across everything but if you, yourself, would like a love relationship, then you might have to talk to him and see if he is interested in that/loves you and look elsewhere if he is only business-interested. I don't think you can mix and match.