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"but I think it is bad to have to keep remembering it and be in a ground hog day state, not very good."-open eyes
so true, OE. when i was first dealing with the transition of not being a victim i realized if i stayed in that mentality i would be stuck there. i wanted to move on with my life, not ruminate, not give the other person power over me...that was a huge motivator to understand and apply a healthier mentality for me.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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