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Originally Posted by Loax1313
Any advice?
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Yes, actually.
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Originally Posted by Loax1313
I almost just want to become a player, and use women before they can use me, but like I said, I'm an honorable person, and it goes against my grain.
Lately I just want to jump off a building and have this all end.
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"Revenge is the abject pleasure of an abject mind." -Decimus Iunius Iuvenalis
This notion that all women aim to use and abuse is likely to lead you into a lot of trouble. Acting on such a thought, even more so. It speaks to insecurities and mistrust, characteristics which are unbecoming of a suitable mate.
My advice... Try again. Sure, there's a chance you'll get hurt again. It's a risk we all have to take. But holding onto this bitterness isn't going to help you at all, and it will likely end with women, likely innocent of any injustice, getting hurt as you did.
Additionally... from those unfortunate experiences, take with you into future relationships the wisdom to know when a relationship is detrimental to you and the courage to get out of it at the opportune moment.
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I've been in therapy and it has a very negative impact on me.
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Why?