Shadowdancer,
I'm so sorry this person doesn't see the great gift of friendship you could be giving her. And I'm sorry you are hurting.

If you have tried to contact her and got no reply-- I'd say-- hopefully, maybe in time she will come around.

Unfortunately--we can't control how others will react towards us-- we only have the power over ourselves. With that said, give yourself the power in knowing that you are a good person and didn't mean to hurt your friend. I imagine she is hurting in her own way.... and might not be ready or able to come to terms with what is going on in her own self.

****hugs**** to you and your friend.

please take gentle care of yourself!!

mandy