I am just saying to do discount the spiritual aspect altogether... it may work for you to help you balance. Just find YOUR spirituality... not what everybody else tells you...

or don't... whatever works for you. If it's living in the moment and right here and for real (I once heard one atheist use a great analogy "I take this life more seriously than religious people. I don't take it as some pre-party. This is it, and I wanna enjoy it and use it for the best").

This life (or THE life) is about you, your needs...