Caroline, I'm sorry - I'm know that I'm not very good about having enough empathy for feelings when (as September said) they aren't clearly supported by facts. Jan recently called me 'pragmatic' and it was a good descriptor, although I never thought of myself that way before. I know that this is a personal deficit and I hate how I have gotten myself in trouble a few times on this site by not being able to focus on a friend's FEELINGS exclusive of the facts. I'm really, really sorry. I will work on that.

Anyway, I do wish you the best of luck and while I generally don't communicate with people outside of PC via email, I will think of you often and keep an eye out to welcome you should you decide to return.

((( Caroline ))) take good care of yourself,
Love,
LMo