we are not criers although T wishes we were because that would be "healing".

Hm.... I have cried once or twice, my T took me in her arms and held onto me which was comforting. She also does that when the little inside kids cry i think. I tend to lose time [blank out] when they get that upset so I am not sure. One time one of the littlest ones was crying and T started to cry, and she reached up and wiped the tears off T's cheeks for her. T did the same. i thought that was kinda sweet.