Cease and decist is all I can say. I was with a man that I was completely and TOTALLY ADDICTED TO. Yes it is possible. I was with a man for two years that cheated on me left and right but in my mind..........I literally thought I could not LIVE without him. Then on to the next one.........another addictive relationship........purely physical (sexual) addiction. He actually ended up trying to kill me. I believe that love and lust can have effects of a drug. The only way to stop is to stop. It's hard but it can be done. ((((hegehogfog)))))