dunno what to say about this. boyfriend has problems with libido so he has never asked me that in the year that we have been together. But he also has never initiated except sorta 1 time. I know that when I ask HIM if he wants to have sex, the answer is usually no. But if I take some time and rub his back or start taking some clothing items off, sometimes it has worked to get him turned on. Geez, I feel like the male role and him being the female role in our sexual relationship, lol