aw Zoo, I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you wanted and needed from the phone call.

Can I ask what you said to her when she asked what she could do for you?
I am going to play devils advocate to maybe open up some suggestion or thought on the phonecall because sometimes it helps. Is it possible that by asking this question she was wondering what she was able to do that would make you feel better? You say that there was a phone tag going on between you and T from before the procedure and afterwards. Was her texts supportive? Is it possible that the reason she didn't ask how you were was because she knew and was unsure what to do?

what was the last words of the phone call before she ended the call?

I wish I could give you a massive hug, I know what it's like to have a therapist who is saying one thing and maybe doing another, it is very annoying and upsetting and removes a feeling of safety.



p.s I wanted to add I agree with swimmer girl - it's hard to keep up with your T because she doesn't seem to have a clue where her boundaries lie and that's her fault not yours.