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Originally Posted by zooropa
PPS this is what sticks with me from the voicemail T left: "if you want emotional support, call your friends. Don't call me for emotional support." That, right there, that's the dealbreaker. That's where I reach my limit and say this isn't okay with me. Because that's not what she said yesterday. That's not what she said on the voicemail she left me earlier today. It's the inconsistency that is making this so hard. I just have to walk away now.
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OMG! zoo
I think you are right to be done with her. There is far too much moving of the goal posts were she is concerned and it has caused you so much heartache in recent months that it's just not worth it. It is not fair on you to keep seeing her. You could find a therapist who is much better at giving you the support you need. I think what she said in that voicemail was very hurtful and not something to be said in a voicemail to a client already in distress! I know she said "phoning" but do you think she may mean contact via text or something since yesterdays session? I am not condoning her way of handling any of this because it is clearly wrong but I am wondering what has sparked her off between yesterday and today.
I am so sorry that you are having to yet again deal with her lack of controlled boundaries, guidelines and consistant suport.