"If we knew each others secrets, what comfort we would find" .... or something like that.

I hear you when it is hard to communicate the depth of the pain you feel. It's almost an undifferentiated pain that defies words.

I have found that it can be uncomfortable, yet all too human, for people to try to even tap into that level of pain being experienced by another. It taps into a deep fear within themselves. Understandable, but isolating.