((((( HUGS ))))))

Your feelings are incredibly valid and understandable. I too would be SO upset if T didn't remember such a big thing as the loss of a beloved pet. (And I am SO sorry for your loss...HUGS)....

It's so hard to not take it personally....I know I would automatically assume that I am not worth it, etc. even though it results in only me feeling even more upset.

It's definitely important to raise this with your T so that you can address it and work on it in therapy.

And as far as T saying that you will work on something the following week and it never comes up - remember that this is YOUR therapy. I know that my T will not initiate anything - I have to be the one to raise it...even though he knows what I need to attend to. It has to be me making that move...which I HATE because it's SO hard to address tough topics....

((( HUGS )))