I read the posts and it angered me. I have BPD and have since childhood. I believe I am nice just because I want to be nice not because i want something. I actually think I'm nice to my detrement because some people walk all over me in RL. So I guess my answer to your question is yes BPD'rs can be nice just to be nice. IMO The nook isn't real BPD friendly they pick out all our flaws and then pick over them kind of like picking at a sore til it festers and then becomes infected. I don't like the nook because of this and find that here plus bpdrecovery is the best place for me.

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