You can definitely get therapy or counselling at your age. I'm 14 too, and I just got into therapy--I have a feeling it's really going to help. You're mother is probably keeping you from your dad for a good reason. I can imagine how tempting and frustrating it would be to not be able to even speak to him. As far as the boyfriend, at least you'll still be able to keep in touch with him, right? Most relationships at our age don't last in the long run anyway--but it's going to be hard at first. Good luck, and I hope you find help.