Thanks, but both me and my wife are very introverted and proud people. We do not like to call on professional therapy solely because we feel anything he can do, we can do on our own - and the fact we are both cheap.

We have a pact to always express our feelings if something is wrong, because we used to bottle up our emotions a lot. But with everything goin on it's a strain and I'm left wondering where my next action is going to be. All I can do is wait until something happens now, and I'm left sitting here trying to em-battle my own emotions and put them back under control. And it leaves me worrying about her. Right now shes "Thinking about us; and what to do" so here I am, trying to find some sort of human reletions outside of the marriage and family. As my introduction says A 3rd neutral party, and to hear their opinions.

Don't misunderstand I won't run w/ what anyone says, but I will take it into consideration; but I just need someone elses perspective, and for it to be honest and non biased. I'm one of those people, if I'm in the wrong, tell me so I can quit it; and I don't get mad over things like that, I appreciate honesty more than anything.