<font color="purple"> I hope I dont define someone by one ill comment or mistake. I sure know I have made my share!! I think it helps to try to see it from the others POV.... At times if I read something and get aggravated or offended, I wait, read it a few more times at different times, and then I can either brush it off, or gather what I hope is a respectful rsponse with my own opinion, or realzie that what was said wasnt what was actually intended... Not sure I made sense here, but I agree with you Fuzzy! </font>