I am not sure what the situation was with your old T and why you aren't seeing that T anymore? Did I miss a thread, if so, I am sorry. But...in context to your dream..Maybe the kids turing into flies was symbolic that you are ready to move on from missing the old T? Perhaps You have taken things from the old T that you can use as you move forward, but you are leaving them in their space while you fly with the new T? I am horrible at dreams. This probably sounds silly. But...thats all I got right now.. Hugs