For what it's worth, any competent therapist knows that the friends and other loved ones of a client cannot be expected to handle the client's emotions while in distress or while experiencing a crisis. Telling you to go to your friends for emotional support for something this upsetting was ridiculous.
Again, for what it's worth. Hope you feel better soon and more power to you for being so strong during this whole thing Zoo
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